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Think Above Par

Sometimes you just need someone to explain why your golf brain does what it does.

Think Above Par is where Kathy talks about the thoughts, emotions and patterns that show up on the golf course—and what you can do with them.

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Episode 173

3 Types of Golf Entitlement That Impact Your Results

Are you “golf entitled”? Kathy dives into that question in this episode. She explores the concept of 'golf entitlement' and how unrealistic expectations about course conditions, swing mechanics, and emotional experiences can sabotage your game. Learn how to manage your emotions and adjust your expectations for a healthier, more fulfilling golf experience. Listen to this episode as she uncovers the secrets to embracing both the highs and the lows on the course, and discover how showing up fully and taking pride in your mental resilience can transform your game! KathyHartWood.com Get on the list: KathyHartWood.com/join Join the Above Par Club 00:00 Welcome to Above Par: Sharing Golf Wins and Insights 00:13 Overcoming Fear on the Golf Course: A Member's Journey 00:33 The Power of Community and Shared Experiences in Golf 03:11 Addressing Golf Entitlement: Expectations vs. Reality 04:10 Course Conditions: Managing Expectations and Entitlement 06:45 Swing and Mechanics: The Reality of Golfing Expectations 08:50 Emotional Entitlement in Golf: Navigating the Ups and Downs 14:51 Closing Thoughts and Encouragement Receive free weekly mental golf tips HERE How many shots is your mental golf costing you? Take the quiz here: quiz.mymentalcaddy.com Continue your mental journey at Your Mental Caddy HERE Mastering Your Golf Brain - A Guide to Self-Coaching Mastering Your Golf Brain - The Workbook Mental Golf Journal - A Range for Your Brain Are all available at KathyHartWood.com/book Email Kathy at Kathy@KathyHartWood.com Website: KathyHartWood.com

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Episode 172

Unpacking Your Golf Story And How it Impacts Your Game

This episode is all about the stories we tell ourselves about our golf games and how those tales can either lift us up or weigh us down. Ever finish a round and then chat about it over lunch with your buddies? Those recaps, the ones you share or just replay in your head, they really shape how we feel about our game. This episode dives into recognizing when we're stuck in a negative loop, like blaming the wind or bad bounces, and how to flip the script. It's about seeing where we can take a bit more control, maybe by ditching the blame game or by getting out and practicing in the rain if that's what gets us. By tweaking the stories we tell about our golf rounds, focusing more on what we can control and less on what we can't, we can actually start enjoying the game more and maybe even knock a few strokes off our scores. The episode is really a nudge to own our golf stories in a way that benefits us on and off the course. Kathy@KathyHartWood.com KathyHartWood.com Receive free weekly mental golf tips HERE How many shots is your mental golf costing you? Take the quiz here: quiz.mymentalcaddy.com Continue your mental journey at Your Mental Caddy HERE Mastering Your Golf Brain - A Guide to Self-Coaching Mastering Your Golf Brain - The Workbook Mental Golf Journal - A Range for Your Brain Are all available at KathyHartWood.com/book Email Kathy at Kathy@KathyHartWood.com Website: KathyHartWood.com

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Episode 171

Patterns of Golf Success: How You Do One Thing, You Do Everything

Ever noticed how the way you do things off the golf course kind of reflects how you play on it? That's what this podcast dives into, exploring the concept that your everyday habits and mindset don't just disappear when you're playing golf. It’s all about the idea that 'how you do one thing is how you do everything.' The host breaks down how common behaviors and patterns, like negative self-talk, dealing with emotions, and even procrastination, don’t just stay in one area of your life; they spill over into your golf game, too. It's not just about improving your swing but also about tweaking those mental habits that follow you everywhere you go. From discussing how perfectionism or a lack of trust can mess with your performance to the power of being aware of these patterns, this episode is all about identifying what you might want to change to boost not just your game but also your day-to-day vibes. So, if you're ready to get a bit introspective and maybe even give your golf game a tune-up from the inside out, this one's for you. Connect with Kathy at KathyHartWood.com Receive free weekly mental golf tips HERE How many shots is your mental golf costing you? Take the quiz here: quiz.mymentalcaddy.com Continue your mental journey at Your Mental Caddy HERE Mastering Your Golf Brain - A Guide to Self-Coaching Mastering Your Golf Brain - The Workbook Mental Golf Journal - A Range for Your Brain Are all available at KathyHartWood.com/book Email Kathy at Kathy@KathyHartWood.com Website: KathyHartWood.com

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Episode 170

From Anxiety to Victory: A Golfer's Self-Coaching Tale

Receive free weekly mental golf tips HERE How many shots is your mental golf costing you? Take the quiz here: quiz.mymentalcaddy.com Continue your mental journey at Your Mental Caddy HERE Mastering Your Golf Brain - A Guide to Self-Coaching Mastering Your Golf Brain - The Workbook Mental Golf Journal - A Range for Your Brain Are all available at KathyHartWood.com/book Email Kathy at Kathy@KathyHartWood.com Website: KathyHartWood.com

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Episode 169

Golf Experiences vs Golf Results

Receive free weekly mental golf tips HERE How many shots is your mental golf costing you? Take the quiz here: quiz.mymentalcaddy.com Continue your mental journey at Your Mental Caddy HERE Mastering Your Golf Brain - A Guide to Self-Coaching Mastering Your Golf Brain - The Workbook Mental Golf Journal - A Range for Your Brain Are all available at KathyHartWood.com/book Email Kathy at Kathy@KathyHartWood.com Website: KathyHartWood.com

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Episode 168

Inside the Masters: Quotes and Concepts to Use in Your Game

Hey there, golf aficionados! 🏌️‍♂️ The week of The Masters always serves up some juicy quotes, and boy, did we hit the jackpot this time! In this electrifying episode, Kathy handpicks some gems from the likes of Max Homa, Scottie Scheffler, and Tyrell Hatton, showing how their insights sync perfectly with the mental game we love to chat about. Get ready to unlock the secrets of mental pivoting, self-belief, and dealing with those pesky negative thoughts as Kathy dishes out practical tips inspired by these pros. But hey, it's not all sunshine and birdies! Ever found yourself swearing at a particular hole? Tyrell Hatton knows the feeling all too well, and we're diving deep into his battle with the notorious hole 15, revealing how one simple tool could've turned his game around. The big takeaway? Even tour pros wrestle with negativity, but they're crushing it by mastering the mental game and keeping their self-worth separate from their scorecard. So buckle up, because we're about to level up your mental game and unleash your inner golfing champ! ⛳ Let's do this! If you want to learn more about Kathy and get more mental golf tips, go to KathyHartWood.com/join Receive free weekly mental golf tips HERE How many shots is your mental golf costing you? Take the quiz here: quiz.mymentalcaddy.com Continue your mental journey at Your Mental Caddy HERE Mastering Your Golf Brain - A Guide to Self-Coaching Mastering Your Golf Brain - The Workbook Mental Golf Journal - A Range for Your Brain Are all available at KathyHartWood.com/book Email Kathy at Kathy@KathyHartWood.com Website: KathyHartWood.com

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Episode 167

How to Know When You Played Too Much Golf

In this episode of Above Par, Kathy delves into the often-asked question among golf enthusiasts: 'How much golf is too much?' Starting with an anecdote from a member of The Above Par Academy, who feels she's playing too much due to back pain, the discussion broadens to physical discomfort as a clear indicator of overdoing the sport. Kathy explores various perspectives on the concept of 'too much golf,' highlighting that it's subjective and varies from one individual to another. The conversation also covers other signs of playing excessively, such as mental exhaustion, loss of interest, and the toll of continuous competitive play. Emphasis is placed on the mental challenges of golf, including managing emotions and maintaining focus, which can lead to mental fatigue. Kathy suggests ways to avoid burnout, such as listening to one's body, taking breaks, and seeking professional help for physical pain. If you want to create better results with your golf, level up your mental game and explore what is really holding you back on the course, get coached live in The Above Par Academy. Receive free weekly mental golf tips HERE How many shots is your mental golf costing you? Take the quiz here: quiz.mymentalcaddy.com Continue your mental journey at Your Mental Caddy HERE Mastering Your Golf Brain - A Guide to Self-Coaching Mastering Your Golf Brain - The Workbook Mental Golf Journal - A Range for Your Brain Are all available at KathyHartWood.com/book Email Kathy at Kathy@KathyHartWood.com Website: KathyHartWood.com

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Episode 166

Navigating Golf After Illness, Injury, or Loss:

This episode is all about overcoming the challenges life throws your way, especially when they mess with your golf game. Ever noticed how tough it is to hit the green when your head's not in the game due to illness, injury, or maybe loss or heartbreak? Kathy dives into this connection between our mental and physical game, sharing personal anecdotes and client stories that hit right at home. You'll get solid advice on how to cut yourself some slack and adjust your expectations, so you don't end up being your own worst critic after a bad round. Basically, it's a heart-to-heart on giving yourself the time and space to heal, finding your feet again on the golf course, and why joining forces with the 'Above Par Academy' might just be the game-changer you need. If you are recovering from an illness, surgery, or grief, and your game is feeling off lately, this one’s for you. Join the Above Par Academy here 00:00 Welcome to Above Par: Sharing the Journey 00:36 The Power of Sharing: Helping Others on the Golf Course 01:43 The Mind-Body Connection in Golf: Navigating Challenges 03:31 Embracing the Unexpected: The Sick Golfer Phenomenon 05:41 Strategies for Overcoming Adversity on the Golf Course 10:33 Join the Above Par Academy: A Call to Action Receive free weekly mental golf tips HERE How many shots is your mental golf costing you? Take the quiz here: quiz.mymentalcaddy.com Continue your mental journey at Your Mental Caddy HERE Mastering Your Golf Brain - A Guide to Self-Coaching Mastering Your Golf Brain - The Workbook Mental Golf Journal - A Range for Your Brain Are all available at KathyHartWood.com/book Email Kathy at Kathy@KathyHartWood.com Website: KathyHartWood.com

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Episode 165

How the Word "Only" Negatively Impacts Your Golf

In this podcast episode, we explore the detrimental impact of the word 'only' within the realms of golf and daily life, shedding light on how it signifies inadequacy and fosters self-criticism. Insights are shared from the Think Above Par Academy, where members delve into strategies for managing their mental and emotional states to enhance their performance on the golf course. A case study is presented, illustrating the emotional distress experienced by a golfer who felt disappointed by their perceived 'only' contribution during a team event. The episode advocates for mindfulness in language usage, proposing that eliminating 'only' from our vocabulary can cultivate a more positive mindset and elevate performance in various aspects of life, including golf. Join the Think Above Par here: AbovePar.club Receive free weekly mental golf tips HERE How many shots is your mental golf costing you? Take the quiz here: quiz.mymentalcaddy.com Continue your mental journey at Your Mental Caddy HERE Mastering Your Golf Brain - A Guide to Self-Coaching Mastering Your Golf Brain - The Workbook Mental Golf Journal - A Range for Your Brain Are all available at KathyHartWood.com/book Email Kathy at Kathy@KathyHartWood.com Website: KathyHartWood.com

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Episode 164

The Art of Emotional Control in Golf

In this episode, Kathy delves deep into the pivotal role of mastering your mental state in the game of golf. Listeners are urged to purposefully cultivate useful emotions, a key factor in performing to your potential. She unpacks potent strategies for priming emotional intentions prior to teeing off, exploring how various emotions can sway gameplay outcomes. Moreover, she offers pragmatic guidance on sustaining a desired emotional equilibrium both on the course and in everyday life. Tune in and transform your game by harnessing the power of intentional emotional management! Get coached by Kathy in the Think Above Par Academy here Contact Kathy at Kathy@KathyHartWood.com Receive free weekly mental golf tips HERE How many shots is your mental golf costing you? Take the quiz here: quiz.mymentalcaddy.com Continue your mental journey at Your Mental Caddy HERE Mastering Your Golf Brain - A Guide to Self-Coaching Mastering Your Golf Brain - The Workbook Mental Golf Journal - A Range for Your Brain Are all available at KathyHartWood.com/book Email Kathy at Kathy@KathyHartWood.com Website: KathyHartWood.com

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Episode 163

Short-Term Memory in Golf: The Goldfish Approach

Ever heard of being a 'goldfish' in golf? It's not just about the short game – it's about having a memory as fleeting as a fish's! Kathy delves deep into this concept, revealing how a short memory for unfavorable shots or rounds can skyrocket your performance to new heights. Clinging to those negative golf memories? It's time to toss them aside. Kathy explains how these memories can be the anchor weighing down your game, shattering confidence and belief in your own abilities. But fear not, dear listener, for there's a solution! Through captivating scenarios, this podcast paints a vivid picture of the transformative power of letting go. By releasing the grip of bad shots and banishing negative narratives, you'll unlock the true potential of your game. So, how do you keep that positivity flowing, even when the greens get rough? Kathy offers advice: be a goldfish! And if you are eager for more game-changing mental tips and personalized coaching, look no further than the exclusive Think Above Par Academy. Tune in now and start thinking above par to play below your par! Get Coached in the Think Above Par Academy here Receive free weekly mental golf tips HERE How many shots is your mental golf costing you? Take the quiz here: quiz.mymentalcaddy.com Continue your mental journey at Your Mental Caddy HERE Mastering Your Golf Brain - A Guide to Self-Coaching Mastering Your Golf Brain - The Workbook Mental Golf Journal - A Range for Your Brain Are all available at KathyHartWood.com/book Email Kathy at Kathy@KathyHartWood.com Website: KathyHartWood.com

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Episode 162

4 Ways to Create More Certainty on the Golf Course

Calm, Certain and Confident or the 3 C’s are preferred emotions that enable you to swing freely and think clearly on the golf course. But what exactly does it mean to create or feel certain? In this episode, I differentiate between certainty and confidence. It starts with defining what you CAN”T be certain about. Once you surrender to that, you can then focus on what you can be certain about. I share with you 4 different areas to create more certainty including club selection, an expectation exercise, steps of a pre-shot routine and mental prep before a round. Creating certainty helps the brain feel safe and lowers anxiety which allows you to swing freely and think clearly. It doesn’t matter how well you are hitting the ball you can always find and build some certainty during the round. Join me AbovePar.club KathyHartWood.com UnleashYourGolf.com Receive free weekly mental golf tips HERE How many shots is your mental golf costing you? Take the quiz here: quiz.mymentalcaddy.com Continue your mental journey at Your Mental Caddy HERE Mastering Your Golf Brain - A Guide to Self-Coaching Mastering Your Golf Brain - The Workbook Mental Golf Journal - A Range for Your Brain Are all available at KathyHartWood.com/book Email Kathy at Kathy@KathyHartWood.com Website: KathyHartWood.com

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