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Golf Isn't Fair. And Maybe That's Not the Problem.
· Episode 296 · 10:41
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Ever finish a round thinking, "Well, that wasn't fair"?
Maybe someone got too many handicap strokes. Maybe you played from different tees. Or maybe you hit a beautiful shot, got a terrible bounce, and watched somebody else get away with a lousy one.
Golf isn't always fair. But what happens when you decide it shouldn't be that way?
In this episode of Think Above Par, I'm talking about fairness in golf, the ways we slip into victim thinking, and how blaming circumstances can leave us feeling powerless.
I'll share some personal experiences from my professional playing days, including a few family matches where the tee assignments became a little controversial!
We'll also explore the difference between recognizing something that's genuinely unfair and allowing it to take over your emotional experience.
Because you don't have to pretend everything is fair to enjoy the game.
The question is: What are you going to do when it isn't?
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